Why I get satisfaction from flashing or CMNM

 

Probably a lot stems from what happened (or didn't ) in childhood / pre-teenage years and adolescence.At about the age of 13 or so, I remember going out often after dark at 9-10 at night and then stripping off my clothes and sneaking around the neighborhood homes' backyards, garages, etc. My bedroom was in the basement floor of our house whose backwall opened outside since the house was on a hill. So it was easy enough to go out without my parents knowing.

Once during one of these nightwalks, I was naked and my clothes were out of reach. I was sitting on a low rock wall behind my neighbor's house and was jacking on my cock in the moonlight. All of a sudden, a kid a year or so younger than me and whom I didn't know personally appeared out of the darkness. "What are you doing?" I was surprised and I was so startled I lost my erection quickly. I guess because I knew he lived about 8 houses down on the next street - it got me scared because since he has seen me and let him be recognized he probably would have wanted to join me - if I hadn't been so skittish.

He asked me if I lived next door, pointing to my house. But I denied it, saying I lived on another street. I got up and grab my shorts and shirts and put them on hastily and got out of there. Later when I got back to my room, the fear lessened, and reasoning kicked in, and then I realized how much it had turned me on to be discovered like that - naked and jerking.

I guess that might account for my continuing habit of getting naked whenever I could. Later as a teenager, I used to take long rides on my bicycle and eventually find a place to get naked out in the country. Since it was broad daylight, I never really had the guts to risk getting caught - so I stayed well hidden. Still the excitement was always there and I never failed to cum quickly once I was completely naked. That's still the case today. Typically, I get naked, erect and jerk off several times a week in semi-public (I'm not an extreme flasher who can just jump out of the bushes and spread open my trenchcoat (LOL). I get naked and jack off -- almost no matter where I am -- while driving (if the situation necessitates), while walking the dog (in my local cemetery), while on trips (to other places and countries) and on outings (to parks , beaches).. I guess being outside is best for me. I don't usually try getting nude or beating off in public buildings or commercial zones. It's the sunshine and greenery and blue sky - communing with nature -- that seem to turn me on as much as the thought of being caught.

One time a couple of summers ago, I got naked in a public park overlooking Tokyo Bay. I ended up being seen by a couple of curious male onlookers (casual strangers who were walking by and who seemed to 'know' that seeing sunbathers was common here).

Of course, I think I was the only sunbather who was actually nude. Well. one of the curious onlookers was a young Japanese guy who eventually got closer and closer and finally came up to me with his passions obviously enflamed by my daring. I was lying naked in the grass, and standing over me (clothed), he encouraged me to beat off to ejaculation right in front of him. It was a very hot experience and one that has kept me trying to 'repeat' it for a couple of years of dickflashing experiences since then.

 My love of being nude outdoors and hopefully in front of other men probably stemmed a lot from

what happened (or didn't ) in childhood, in my pre-teenage years and in adolescence. Of course, it depends on what you mean when you stay started flashing.' But that's a whole other issue.

One of my first 'flashing' or exhibitionist experiences was in the 3rd grade - age 8. I had a school friend whose house was far from mine (we rode a school bus). Sometimes, in order for us to play, our parents would allow me to ride home with him, and then either mine or his mother would bring me home. He had a real wooden 'playhouse' in his backyard - complete with furniture, windows/curtains, and he also lots of toys and also clothes (his mother's mostly) for playing 'dress up.' 

We'd strip naked and put on the old clothes. I have an image of me running around his yard with a thin chiffon blouse with nothing else but a hard-on underneath. NO... I did not (and do not) get

aroused by wearing female clothing - it was just the act of getting naked to dress up (only partially clothed) that excited me. I vaguely remember us comparing stiff dicks but I don't think we really did anything with them - although I kind of have a faint memory of us doinng something with granulated sugar on our prepubescent woodies. My family moved every year during this period, so I didn't stay there long enough for things to develop further.     

At about the age of 13 or so, - just about the time I discovered masturbation, I remember going out often after dark at 9-10 at night and then stripping off my clothes and sneaking around the neighborhood homes' backyards, garages, etc. One reason was the fact that I really did not have a place to jerk off. There were six people in the family and only one bathroom. While the basement was being turned into a third bedroom and family room, my brother and I had to sleep in the living room - just steps from my parents' room - so there was little privacy.
The basement floor of our house, whose back wall opened to the outside since the house was on a hill, so it was easy enough to go out without my parents knowing (and my brother was asleep). My mother was a nurse and often worked the 3-11 shift.

 

Once during one of these 'night walks', I was naked and my clothes were out of reach. I was sitting on a low rock wall behind my neighbor's house and was jacking on my cock in the moonlight. All of a sudden, a kid a year or so younger than me and whom I didn't know personally appeared out of the darkness. "What are you doing?" I was surprised and was so startled I lost my erection quickly. I guess because I knew he lived about 8 houses down on the next street - it got me scared that he tell someone or the word would get around. Actually - I realized later by the way he kept asking more questions about what I doing, he was probably curious about the jerking off.

He asked me if I lived next door, pointing to my house. But I denied it, saying I lived on another street. I got up and grabbed my shorts and shirts, put them on hastily and got out of there. Later when I got back to my bed, the fear lessened, and reasoning kicked in, and then I realized how much it had turned me on to be discovered like that - naked and jerking.
Later I wondered what he was doing out alone at night and further from his house than I ventured. Probably he would have joined me in getting naked and jerking if I'd handled it differently.

I guess that these events might account for my continuing habit of getting naked in public whenever I could. Later as a teenager, I used to take long rides on my bicycle and eventually find a place to get naked out in the country. Since it was broad daylight, I never really had the guts to risk getting caught - so I stayed pretty well sheltered from direct public view. But the excitement was always there because I could have been caught (or seen), and I never failed to cum quickly once I was completely naked.

 One time a couple of summers ago, I got naked in a public park overlooking Tokyo Bay. I ended up being seen by a couple of curious male onlookers (casual strangers who were walking by and who seemed to 'know' that seeing sunbathers was common here). Of course, I think I was the only sunbather who was actually nude. Well. one of the curious onlookers was a young Japanese guy who eventually got closer and closer and finally came up to me with his passions obviously enflamed by my daring. I was lying naked in the grass, and standing over me (clothed), he encouraged me to beat off to ejaculation right in front of him. It was a very hot experience and one that has kept me trying to 'repeat' it for a couple of years of dickflashing experiences since then.

I wrote about this in my latest JUB blog entry and also on my Guys Into CMNM (Clothed Male / Naked Male) blog.

 

       

Skinny Dipping - one of the great summer treats

[quote="BudnBos"] (As posted on Freeballing.com) I did skinny dipping for the first time this summer, and it was awesome... being in the water and at the beach nude. Most everyone else was nude also so it was no big deal.[/quote]

It may not be a big deal as far as flashing goes, but it's still a great thing to be nude and enjoying the Skinny dipping at San Onofre (see pic at right) -- that's the whole point of skinny dipping. I try to do that all summer long and whenever I can any time. I love getting out to Black's Beach in San Diego, Baker Beach in San Francisco, Russian River at Guerneville (CA) and San Onofre State Beach (just south of Orange County (CA) on I-5 (one hour north of San Diego). I had fun there in Feb-March and met up at Black's Beach with one of my flasher buddies from the Net. (See his photo at left below).surf and sand -

Of course, it's more thrilling to try to get naked (with or without the swimming) at the pool, or jacuzzi, or the beach or anywhere that nudity isn't expected.

I used to teach at a school (K-12) that had a pool. Since I had a key to the locker room (with access to the pool), I would sometimes go late at night and swim naked in the pool. I found out later on that one of male teacher had done the same but got caught and in trouble. Eventually, they beefed up security and put a stop to all late night swimming (changed locks).

Sometimes, it's possible to get naked in a hotel pool or jacuzzi when not many people are around. At other times, I've tried going completely naked from my tent to the campground toilet / shower - at night of course - while camping. Have stripped and gone skinny dipping at many places - public parks, state and national parks - Yosemite has some (cold water freezes your balls!) great places for that. The Big Island (actually part of all the islands of Hawaii) have many beaches where it's possible to skinnydip without offending others. Waipio Valley - out from Honokaa in the northeastern area of the Big Island has a great place where can just see tiny figures bobbing around from their lookout point at the time.

people frequently (spontaneously - not a regular practice and probably frowned on since there are tourists (from the US mainland - Bible-belters) but once you descend the steep road down the valley entrance (on foot - of course), you can cross the fresh water river that flows into the ocean, and go to the northern (deserted) stretch of the beach. I've seen many people get naked there (including me and friends) for skinny dipping. People

Deserted stretch at Waipio Valley

Kehena Black Sand Beach (Puna Coast, Big Island)

Of course, my all-time favorite place to skinnydip is Kehena Black Sand's Beach on Hawaii's Puna coast. It's not just about showing your goodies on a nude beach. It's a marvelous place where nature's splendor, the chance to swim with dolphins and see whales, mix with the convivial atmosphere of the local tradition of a hippie holiday romp on the beach - complete with all sorts of naked and semi-clothed characters - all of whom are welcoming, tolerant, and often buzzed.

 

 

Gay Halloween in Tokyo 2016, Shinjuku Ni-chome, at Aiiro Cafe, Saturday, Oct 29, 2016 9:00pm-2am

In Tokyo, Halloween is starting to become a bigger commercialized American 'festival' - of sorts. I am one of the few people who attempts to get gay-buds to dress up and go out on Halloween weekend. We're rounding up in Tokyo Ni-chome gay district on the Saturday before Halloween.

Check out the Eventbrite link below for maps and to RSVP (not needed) since it's a commercial bar and open to the public, also viewable from the street since it is mainly right on the street. Or you can also read more info about our Oct 29, 2016 Halloween Costume Street Party at the end of this entry.  For now, the party is impromptu, starts after 9:00pm and runs until 2:00pm with an after-party at one of the late-bars (Kinsmen), costumes are not required, but please wear one - the sexier the better!    See the map to Aiiro Cafe below.  You can compare this one with the Google Map above. 

Eventbrite:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tokyo-halloween-costume-street-party-oct-29-sat-9pm-2am-tickets-27365297341?utm-medium=discovery&utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&aff=escb&utm-source=cp&utm-term=listing

Aiiro Cafe (formerly Advocates Cafe) is just 7 meters from the corner (traffic light) on Nakadori ('center-street') of Ni-chome. (二丁目）  

The bar opens up right onto the sidewalk, so you can't miss the crowd as it starts to gather and spill out into the street. 

The map is a little bit old. Sunkus Convenience Store is now Lawson's (I think).Shinjuku Park has been dismantled - there's nothing left but a small public restroom on the corner. 

MAP

Look at the Facebook page  for Aiiro Cafe for a map.

https://www.facebook.com/AiiROCAFE

Halloween used to be pretty wild in Tokyo. There used to be a time when hundreds of costumed foreigners would gather at Shinjuku train station for a raucous ride around the green circle train, the Yamanote Line. At a designated time on the Saturday before All Saint's Day or Tous Saints (Nov 1) (or All Hallow's Eve (Oct 31), as many as 500 foreign residents would all board a late evening train headed counter clockwise around the center of Tokyo.   Since Halloween is on a Monday (Oct 31), the gay city event will be held this year on Saturday, October 29, 2016 from 9pm until 2 am (or later).

At each station, approximately 2-4 minutes intervals, the whole gang would jump off the train car (actually more like a subway although mainly above ground) and then dash into another train car in a mad howling mass - before the doors closed. Of course, it causes chaos and a lot of local commuters were also pushed and shoved. So it used to be a kind of revenge act for all those other 51 weeks when we are involuntarily packed like sardines on our way to and from work every day.

People wore all kinds of simple and elaborate costumes, but I love to see the straight men wearing a yukata (summer kimono) with nothing on underneath, so their freeballing ended up becoming a point of departure for an interesting conversation over beers after the 'wild ride.' Invariably, you would meet a new group of mildly acquainted people and stay out in the bars and streets under the sunrise.

Because there was a lot of 'incidental damage' to the trains (broken light fixtures, trash, and people getting hurt - mainly some drunk participants slipping or getting caught in train doors), the police decided to put a complete stop to the shenanigans a few years back. So hundreds of them arrive around the suspected witching with shields and riot batons, ready to stand firm (and maybe 'erect' too) if a crowd of mainly white people in weird clothes shows up. So far no one has seemed to see that simply choosing another station on the circle or working in tandem with cellphones from various small stations would allow the 'Wild Ride' to go on. The problem is that 500 strangers don't usually meet up and then go in cohoots to plan what might be considered a urban terrorist act.

I'll be at the Gay Halloween Costume Street Party that is starting to become a mini tradition  on the street in front of Advocates Cafe (gay bar) in Tokyo's Shinjuku Ni-chome district ( a 10-minute walk from the main Shinjuku Train station). See maps above.

http://aliving.net/aiirocafe/

Eventbrite:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tokyo-halloween-costume-street-party-oct-29-sat-9pm-2am-tickets-27365297341?utm-medium=discovery&utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&aff=escb&utm-source=cp&utm-term=listing

If you are in Tokyo on Sat, Oct 31, then drop by Advocates (in costume or without) or you could try

your luck for another spontaneous Wild Ride at Shinjuku JR Station at about 10pm that night. But beware the police will be out in droves to prevent it. Still....

Back in Shinjuku, I may be dressed as a Greek Senator - in a toga, the one I described from N2N in an earlier blog posting, or in another costume or two that I'll have on hand for the evening.

 Stop by and give me a Trick or Treat, or just say hello.

Cheers,
Kelly sunbuns99 / sunbuns / sunbunz

Nude sunbathing and cruising near Tokyo

Question:   Can you go nude sunbathing anywhere in Tokyo? If so, where?

Just saw that you know a lot of places for sunbathing in Tokyo......will be there on sunday morning for 2 days only.......i'm a WGM from France 40 yo.....will stay in Shinjuku.....so could you recommend me a nice place not too far to be naked ? do you know may be a gay bar with naked or underwear party ?

My Answer:

Most of the places are far and too complicated to explain, but there's one (or two)  that might work:　The one I usually hang out at during warmer weather is a secluded, wooded river front area near a public recreation area on the Tama River (in Fuchu City).  I explain more about it further below.
However, for tourists and visitors, the one easier to find is Odaiba or お台場海浜公園 is a public  seaside recreation area on reclaimed land in Tokyo Harbor.   Remember Odaiba is in a pubic park so being nude should be done with caution.   

Sometimes men get naked for sunbathing (or nearly naked) on a island at Odaiba Marine Park.  There's a seaside beach park (manmade beach) at Odaiba, but people sometimes sunbathe, but not actually nude on the beach. Instead, a few do get naked (or almost naked) on the man-made island to the far right and around.  The island has a historical significance which I won't go into now.  But it's semi-isolated and there are some spots that lend themselves to sunbathing and sometimes semi-nude or discreetly nude sunbathing.   Note: Public nudity is illegal in Japan and heavy fines (including imprisonment are possible), but fairly rare (partly because no one does it where they can get caught).  Still you should take precautions and be discreet. 

Public Baths and Hot Springs Resorts  (non -sexual rest and relaxation but plenty of nudity). 

If you just want to get naked with other males in a non-sexual environment, then you could try one of the onsen (hot springs resort) -- outside the city, or visit one of the newer onsen inside the city. Public baths used to be found in nearly every community, but more recently the majority have closed and some have been replaced by a commercial hot spring bath.  There are over 50 locations where a public bath has been replaced by a hot springs day-resort with the great city limits of Tokyo.   These are legitimate mineral (salt) baths that provide a relaxing place for family fun; in some cases, there are massage services on the premises, and some even have body work services.   There is no hidden sexual meaning to any of these services, even though it might appear differently.  For example,  the hot spring bath I go to in Hino City (western Tokyo) has a body-scrubbing service. The man' s body is rubbed with an abrasive (not too harsh) cleanser and the dead skin cells are removed for about 1,000 yen (in addition to the entrance fee to the baths - 800 yen).  The male is nude and keep in semi-privacy behind a screen (although it was easy enough to peep over and get a look at the youngish woman rubbing the naked man's body).  Of course, that isn't a turn-on sexually for me, but it made me wonder if some of the staff who do this might actually be male. 

 Some of these hot springs baths have an outdoor bath pools adjacent to the indoor bath area. These roten-buro ( 露天風呂  - secluded, hidden from public view outdoors baths) are a nice way to get an up-close look at Japanese men - in groups and often accompanying their families, small children, and teens, or their school or work friends (or teammates).  The costs range from about 800 - 1800 yen and there are typically restaurants, and a lounge area (with TVs) where you can relax in a bath gown outside of the bath-time. 

 How to get there:   

Take the Yurikamome Train (a monorail leaving from Shimbashi Station, a couple of stops south  of Tokyo Station, JR Yamanote Line (Green circle train).   Get off at Odaiba Kaihin Koen (Odaiba Marine Park) - first stop after crossing the Rainbow Bridge. Then walk to Odaiba Beach (5 min), and then walk to the far right, turn on a causeway that stretches out into the harbor toward an island.  On that island, in discreet places, sometimes guys get naked (or almost naked). It obviously depends on the weather, and I imagine Sundays arehh bn  rather busy with tourists and sightseers so it would likely be difficult to be discreet.

If you have only two days, I would recommend instead your going to 24 Kaikan in Shinjuku. 

It's a gay baths (and hotel) with an outdoors sunning area on the top floor.  Nudity has to be discreet  -- there are CCTV cameras  on the roof- but it is possible to get naked, and there is a shower area where you can also be nude as you shower.   Also you will have the several floors below of sauna, play rooms, shower stalls, etc, where gay sex goes on.

 Address:   2-13-1 Shinjuku, Shinjuku-ku, Tokyo, Japan

Hand drawn map at:

http://www.juno.dti.ne.jp/kazuo24/english/e-shinjuku-map.htm

 (the Lawson convenient store (on Shinjuku-dori (Avenue) is now a different one (Sankus or 3F)

I'm not aware of any naked parties except perhaps Gate In (although I've never been (over the age limit -- LOL). 

Gate In, Tokyo-to, Chuo-ku, Yaesu 1-7-10 Nakatsubo Bldg 5F, 

See http://www.joinac.com/gatein/usa/

  You can find additional spots and bars at: 

http://utopia-asia.com/japntoky.htm

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My Favorite outdoor nude sunbathing spot in Tokyo

Local cruising spot in Fuchu City on the Tamagawa River

府中市側で稲城大橋に近い、水遊びの公園のそばです。多摩川～で服全部脱いでフェラしたり…オナニー見せたりしたいです。顔射して下さい

For me, there's a much closer spot.  In spring, summer and warm days in the fall, I go out to the Tama River not too far from where I live (near the Inagi O-hashi Bridge - just 300 m north of it), and discreetly sunbathe nude or semi-nude (depending on how many people are around).  There is also a gay cruising area there which is near a public park located right on the banks of the river.  It's a wooded area that is located actually in the river bed, which is down below the flood embankment and in the land between the embankment and the actual river ( where the river narrows and widens as it meanders in its course).  The wooded thicket is on a raised area (perhaps an island many years ago), and men get naked there for sunbathing and also gay cruising.  It seems never to be really busy but gets its most visitors on weekends and holidays in the afternoons and before nightfall. Obviously, most are local Japanese men.

If you'd like to go or would like to join me there (when it warm enough), you can contact me for directions. 

For me, there's a much closer spot.  In spring, summer and early fall, I go out to the Tama River not too far from where I live (near the Inagi O-hashi Bridge - just 300 m north of it), and discreetly sunbathe nude or semi-nude (depending on how many people are around).  There is also a gay cruising area there which is near a public park located right on the banks of the river.  It's a wooded area that is located actually in the river bed, which is down below the flood embankment and in the land between the embankment and the actual river ( where the river narrows and widens as it meanders in its course).  The wooded thicket is on a raised area (perhaps an island many years ago), and men get naked there for sunbathing and also gay cruising.  It seems never to be really busy but gets its most visitors on weekends and holidays in the afternoons and before nightfall. Obviously, most are local Japanese men.

  Here I am at the X-spot.  I like being seen by clothed or partly and fully nude men.

The photos above are of the public park (wading pools and streams for people and kids to play in the water). Just beyond and behind this wading pool (lower photo) area, heading toward the river itself), you can find the hidden cruising spot.  You'll often see a couple of bicycles parked along the embankment as 'visitors' have parked them there.
  This is just beyond the wading pond, right on edge the concrete embankment.  It's usually where I park my bicycle. The Inagi Ohashi Bridge can be seen in the background.  On the far left and middle of the photo is the edge of the wading pool.

 There's a small tree in the foreground (ignore it), but it's on the embankment which is a flood levy built out of concrete and concrete tiles. Look further along and towards the very center of the photo, and you'll see a tree right on the edge of the embankment.  It's a large tree with abundant branches that spread out like an umbrella.

Just before that tree,  you can go down the concrete embankment to a trail.  There should be a trail worn between the tall grass and bushes - a least in summer, early fall there is. The trail is about 25 meters long and leads up into the dense ticket where the cruising and nude sunbathing goes on.   If you make your way into this hidden islet (usually no water), you will find a low area among the trails. There are 3 walnut trees and some willow trees there which is where the fun goes on.

  Sometimes guys make a pretense of sitting or standing around that area near the tree. That way they can see who is going in to cruise and will follow if they are interested in pursuing.  Sometimes, a fellow or a coule of fellows will sit and smoke or have canned drinks while they are waiting.

I haven't been there enough to know any patterns for what time of day or which days are busy. Fridays can be busy. I once saw a naked guy scurrying off in the bushes beyond the inland island thicket. Saturdays and Sundays and holidays would also tend to be busier... but there can be no guarantees.

Map / Directions: See the Google map below. You can walk (about 18-25 min) from Musashinodai Station   (Keio Line from Shinjuku, take an express train to Chofu, then a local train to Musashi-no-dai).  The wading pond visible in the above photo is located on the map. There a man-made stream that runs from the wading pond to the right (north west) for about 150 meters.  The cruising spot is just beyond the wading pond.

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Kelly