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Japanese Society in Cameo: Glimpsed from snapshots of guys in a hot spring

This entry is a related follow-up to the previous post and also earlier on my Kelly's Second Life (blog). It was sparked in part because I had recently given the issues involved some deep thought, but also because I'm fascinated by scenes depicted in these photos: guys being naked around other clothed (semi-naked), and nude guys - especially here in Japan, where I am a member of an extreme social/racial minority: foreign white gay married father among 125 million Japanese.

[ This entry was also posted one of my other blogs: Otoko - The Japanese Male and on my Tribe and JustUsBoys blogs. The reason for that is because nowadays I never know when my blog and my user id will be deleted without warning. Yahoo! is infamous for doing so, but I've recognized recently that Google may being trying to 'clean up' its own house - so to speak. Dozens (that I know) of amateur 'monetized' blogs with explicit sexual gay content have disappeared from Blogspot in the last few weeks.]

Some of these photos of Japanese men emerge from a hot springs (mineral baths) or 'onsen' were highlighted on ********** not long ago. I can't resist showing them again. It's just THE Japanese thing to do - and seems to be especially popular with groups of male college friends, intramural sports teams, or company excursions. They usually spend a night or two at the hot spring resort - one of the most famous - as well as accessible to Tokyo - is Hakone (near the Mt. Fuji Lakes area). Invariably, they have a nice meal - (that's a whole other story) and gulped down lots of beer, sake, and even whiskey or strong imported Chinese liquor.

They're all wearing the traditional 'yukata' - thin, cotton kimono-like coat - with (hopefully) nothing on underneath. When the alcohol, good food and camaraderie take effect, they start dancing sometimes in the buff or provocatively draped, they sing (karaoke) or do stunts (handstands, etc), and then everybody heads down to the communal baths in the resorts - usually downstairs and many times facing outdoors - a river, wooded stream or even the ocean. Those who can no longer stand - due to the alcohol- might be helped by to their rooms, and fondled or groped or even much more (I only know what I would be doing if my buddy had passed out half naked). Back in the baths, the antics usually escalate - naked men are scrubbing each other's back, and there's the relentless teasing about the size of somebody's dick (often teased that he's too big), and sooner of later somebody passes out from heat exhaustion and too much liquor. A few erections may emerge from under the suds or hidden while squatting in the thigh-deeper hot pools of volcanic mineral waters.

All in all.. it's a great time for everyone.

Japanese men are horny a whole lot of the time and - in my opinion - the repressive nature of their society actually only deepens and heightens the sexual tensions for the average company worker. The stress of so many social and work responsibilities is sometimes almost too much to bear: 'fetch this' and 'do this now' is the only thing workers hear all day and half the night since they almost always work overtime for NO (or little) pay.

Without much recourse or with little leeway for arguing back, they submissively accept what they have to do, and go about it quietly (or at least only mutter out of earshot) or complain to their 'real' friends later.

All this comes bubbling to the surface when the drinks and relaxation reach the max at big group parties out in the country.

The months of repressed desire also come bubbling to their consciousness - well.. at least it would in mind. Japanese men are generally dissuaded from 'flirting' in public - especially in an office situation. In fact, it use to be true that inter-office affairs and romantic relationships were so frowned upon that a worker risked getting transferred or - in the worse case - fired for dating a co-worker. It really is much less true nowadays because of the changes occurring in the society and in the economy. However, to some extent interoffice romance is discouraged. In that kind of environment, young men (ages 22- 35) before marriage didn't have many avenues for sexual or romantic release -except Japanese anime and pornography, and the nightly jerk-off once they crawled in to bed after midnight when they got home from a couple of 'mandatory' rounds a the local pub with the office gang - that often included their immediate superior (who was bucking for promotion or for leverage to support his pet projects).


The trips to the onsen (hot spring resorts) and the pub crawls after working later are rather like R & R for the troops in an army that's on dangerous duty. This was (and still is in some cases) the Civilian Military - (Japan Incorporated) because that was exactly how the typical Japanese factory or company used to operate. The new ones were the recruits -- called upon to have to endure all kinds of hardships (working 12-16 hour days for example was expected), so these 'trips' were probably a natural way to help relieve a lot of stress.. some of it under the belt line - so to speak.

There is no doubt in my mind that many a young company employee (male or perhaps more so the females) was 'defrocked' while on one of these onsen excursions organized by his (her) company or social group.

The situation has ameliorated to some extent. It is not easy to determine how much though. Japan still has the highest rates of suicide of any industrialized (first world) nation, and the numbers continue to swell. Over 30,000 per year end their lives and by estimates, nearly 4 times as many try to do so.

Japanese has a massive social networking infrastructure long, long before the days of the Internet - or Facebook. I could write a book on this and related topics... but - in reality - much of it is coming to an end. Today's young people do not want to participate to the same degree as before. The number of 'freeters' - young people who refuse to get a full-time job, who often still live at home on their parents' dime, and are content with having little money - but lots of freedom and tons of free time to work part-time at as many as 3 jobs, quit when they get tired of one, go out with friends to sing karaoke or drink or just hang out, and play PS3 games or windowshop all night long.

 

 

Ass flashing - guys who get off showing off their butts

bradjup
May I flash?
 Posted: Sat Aug 23, 2008 3:03 pm Post subject: flashed and sucked a Swedish guy

 So I go to this place after work, only a few dudes, 3 others, were there today,
It is an oral sex club mainly but nudity is allowed. Since there were only few people, I took it all my clothes off and the first dude touched me in the patio and we were mainly observed.

I like to keep walking and not getting too involved since my main purpose is to flash my erect cock and ass.  Inside another young dude grabbed me and did a hand job, while an older husky guy watched.

We simulated fucking while he had his pants on. Later we went out to the patio where a third guy, older but attractive,  was really into grabbing and touching,  then he pulled his pants down and took shirt off and put a condom on. By the way one of the men that worked at this place was smoking a cigarette in the patio and saw it all.            

I never get fucked, but he had a smaller dick and i just spread my cheeks so he could take a good look and all of a sudden he fucked me. It felt good to feel penetrated while standing naked in the patio. Anybody could have come out and watch me getting penetrated. But I didn't want him to cum or me to cum and  so I went back in.

This time a Swedish guy just came in, young and built, immediately all the other guys were following him to suck him but he saw me walking around naked and got interested, he followed me back to the patio and undid his pants, I sucked his uncircumcised 8-inch cock while he moaned, and I pulled his pants down all the way and touched his ass.

I wanted to lick his ass but he was only into getting sucked, a few min later he came on my face.
He told me he had arrived from Sweden a few hours earlier hehe.
This all happened in a matter of an hour or so. I got out and saw some coworkers on the street, so it was kind of weird since i was still high from all that sex.

sunbuns
Desperately flashing nobody
Joined: 23 Apr 2005 Location: Hawaii, San Diego, travel a lot US,Asia, Europe, etc Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 9:11 am
Post subject: bradjup

Your experiences always get me horny... wish we had a bar/place like the one you've described here often... that is almost 'public.'

Not to say I don't get my chances for sex with anonymous guys.. but they are normally in a private area inside a gay baths/sauna (so people can't free enter).

Still there are TV rooms and lounges inside these where semi-clothed guys (usually wearing a towel or a gown) come to sit/rest. I love being the only totally naked guy in those rooms, and it's really hot when one of more of them takes a big interest in my ass-ets (butt or cock).. Every once in while, some guys (or guys) will initiate sex or try to get me stimulated to cum... or start sucking or rimming. It is truly hot being watched having sex by other guys and knowing that it's really turning them on too. So I know what you must be experiencing .. thanks for sharing those times..
Kelly

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The spirit is willing but the flash is week day and weekend!


bradjup
May I flash?
Joined: 20 Jan 2008
Posted: Mon Sep 08, 2008 4:22 pm Post subject: thanks

 Yeah, it has become my thing to do on Fridays after work. I grab a beer and take it in, undress and walk around naked while I drink.

I love to show off for fully clothed men. It is interesting at this place since most of them are respectful and won't grab me unless I let them.  I love when they get curious and just examine my bod,
spread my ass cheeks and look inside, or open my pee hole, sniff me while I just stand there as others watch, I just stand there patiently.

Once things get more involved, it is hot to be watched and to moan and grunt a little to show others how much I am enjoying the experience.

There is a new place I found on Mondays and it has a few folks. I have a huge curved dick so guys always love watching it since it is so different, but the biggest turn on for me is to have a guy spread my ass cheeks while another watches. Once this dude was sniffing and this other dude was asking him what my hole smelled like and the dude was talking about the smell, and sweat, while I was just there spread open silent just letting them examine me.

sunbuns
Desperately flashing nobody

Joined: 23 Apr 2005
Location: Hawaii, San Diego, travel a lot US, Asia, Europe, etc

Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 9:47 am Post subject: Another hot experience..wow!
That's really cool that you are so turned on by being naked and having clothed men watch or examine you. I know that is what takes me back again and again to the gay saunas.
It's hot too - that although you have a big cock (let's see it sometime LOL).. you really love have your ass observed and explored. But you never mentioned what some guys really love (getting their asses fucked).

I think you are really into CMNM (clothed male / naked male) -- the point of it being an absolute turn-on for you. Evidently, it is for the guys who watch you and sniff your ass or who put their noses or fingers in your hole. This site / board is called 'dick flash' but obviously there is a lot more to it than showing one's penis in public.

I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to keep my tongue out of your butt -- if I found you naked like that in one of those bars/clubs or maybe something more solid (*he he*). I'm sure you have to 'fight off' some penile invaders - every once in a while (LOL). The trouble with me is that I can't fight off the temptation - once my ass gets the 'royal' tongue/finger treatment then -- it seems to ache for something bigger. So it's all over pretty soon after that - especially if a few guys are watching me get fucked (or fucking somebody esle) - it puts me over the edge in no time at all.

If you'd allow, I'd like to re-post these specific conversations on my CMNM blog: Guys into CMNM. There are guys into that - who would never consider themselves 'cock flashers' and might not ever visit this site.  By the way, I recently found the video of a guy on Xtube who loves flashing his erect cock and naked body in public restrooms (in Japan) - all the while videotaping himself and the guys who watch and sometimes grope him or his dick. His id on Xtube is: matuatama  

Look him up or check out one of his vids on my CMNM blog (linked above) 

Kelly

 

The urge to expose : the freeballer's dilemma

See-thru freeballing:  Perv'd or Fashion Passion?

Having spent the hottest part of the summer in the US mainland, I wasn't prepared for the excruciatingly torrid temps and scorching sun when I returned to Japan - and that was after it had 'cooled off'. Actually, the heat isn't the problem -- it's the humidity that makes it too muggy to wear underwear during the summers in Tokyo. 

Weather and climate aside, I find that once I've been out the country, I get the urge to exhibit myself rather unobtrusively- sort of strut my stuff - so to speak by freeballing in mesh shorts, torn jeans, very tight and /or translucent board shorts, and even 'jinbei' ( a short summer casual men's kimono-like mesh garment). 



I mentioned this before on this board - but the urge overcomes my good sense sometimes. So until the fall rains 

  

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and cooler weather rolls in, I tend to be about half naked whenever I'm outside (not at work obviously), and then I also spend many lazy late summer-like afternoons being naked outdoors - discretely sunbathing nude at the local river (a wide recreation area long both sides of a shallow but wide river in Tokyo). The area is frequented by cyclists, families and people walking their pets, but it seems I'm just far enough out of sight to be cause for alarm or simply believe cannot even imagine what they eyes would or should otherwise report: there a naked white guy over there. 


It's probably worth exploring the WHY of why I do this. But I  think it has a great deal to do with three things: 1) it's an ultimate statement of freedom. Being an American who is living in a socialistic nation where individual wishes, rights and personal ambitions are so repressed by the strict edicts of Japanese social fabric means that I absolutely am constantly starved for personal liberty. 2) I am an extreme racial minority in this country. I don't just stick out like a sore thumb; I AM the SORE THUMB, penis, ass, and every other part of the body. (Sorry too much to explain in a blog post), and finally 3) I am gay living as suppressed and hidden life, pretending to be a completely straight, and upstanding non-citizen but one who has loved being close to nature - especially being naked in the sunshine, wind and sea - since he was a child. 

 

You can see a photo of the location where I go nude or semi-nude sunbathing on my other Blogger blogs (below). The mesh shorts not ones I would wear on the street, (well, at least not in Japan - although I have done so at night in Hawaii), but my other 'see-thru' freeballing shorts are also pretty revealing). By the way, those are people in the background to the left of and below my elbow. 

Someday I'm going to ask someone to take a photo of me from over there so that I can get a sense of what people could actually see. Of course, I have other photos that show nudity, but that's just TOO ludicrous to be exposing myself to you all on the Freeballing.com site (Tongue-in-cheeks - (mouth, not my sun-kissed butt, Ha Ha!) 

I guess I have to be honest to stay that my cock swells a bit when I think (or know) that another guy is watching or even just glancing at my crotch. My 'former' target for such 'sightings' was a 25-ish blue collar worker who passed by me many mornings on the way to his work. Perhaps because of the economy, he no longer does. So I've taken a different tact and am now wearing an assortment of the above clothes to see which one draws more attention (i.e. straying eyes that shoot straight to my crotch), and also to see who seems to actually notice or who can't help himself from 'repeatedly' noticing. So far there aren't many onlookers; however, one guy seems to have realized that he's likely going to be tempted to look and he obviously thinks that's embarrassing. So if I see him coming now on his bicycle, I find that he manages to look the other way or to feign fidgeting with something in his basket (no, the one on the front of his bicycle) Smirk! 



Pervert, am I. Probably, yes. But it's fun trying to mildly shock the Japanese men. I actually pay little attention to whether the women give me a glance or not. 


So.. why is it that men are so 'visually' stimulated? I'm sure there is an evolutionary and also psycho-sexual explanation. But what the hell, it's fun being 'mean' (and Kermit used to say - Oh, that was 'green'). Well, it was probably Cookie Monster who thought that, anyway. 
Sayonara, 
Kelly