Hawaii - home to the world's most diverse set of hot men!

But any where on Hawaii is such diversity - and not human race (geographically / social mores/attitudes / family and religious patterns and practices, cultures) - - Hawaii is the most ethnically diverse place in the US (people from parts of Canada, UK (London), Australia, Brazil etc are even more cosmopolitan - but much of the US (and not only in AMERIKA are there very provincial cities/towns/rural communities).

So in Hawaii (all the islands) you can find hot guys from all ethnic origins and even better -- hapa -- mixed race guys can be SOoooo! hot -- like Tiger Woods, but with so many variations -- some

with more Asian or Hispanic or White or Black or Pacific Islander (Hawaiian, Samoan, etc).. Portuguese / Chinese-Japanese / Hawaiian. These mixed race individuals can be unbelievably sexy - -especially when the guy in totally cool with himself and his male sexuality.


Hey.. having lived in Asia (plus North Am and Europe) and now having travelled to most continents, I find that appreciating the beauty of all types of men is very stimulating and the mixed races (the fastest growing ethnic category) on our planet and in the US - are some of the best physical specimens. When they are raised proud and confident of their multi-racial and multi-cultural origins (as can happen in Hawaii) then it's the best possible result and the sexiest too.

To an extent this is probably true in any country that has one dominant racial group and minorities are seldom seen or rarely befriended (as might be true in China, Korea, and some southeast Asian countries). Hey, it is little different actually in part of the US -- some Ohio counties have actually NO black or Asian residents -- just as would be true for some districts in Japan or other Asian nations (or Middle East countries, etc).

What has been said about Hawaii is so true - it is one of the most ethnically diverse regions in the US and probably rivals the racial and multicultural diversity of just about any where. I've visiting some very diverse communities - not all by any means, but Hawaii has as much diversity although not as great depth of  individual ethnic cultures as Toronto, Sydney, San Francisco, London, Singapore, New York or Paris.

  

 


What' s even better is that there are plenty of non-white men who actually LIKE white guys (of course there are those who don't seek them out too). Having lived in Japan - from my experience, there are plenty (if the majority of gay men in that country) who either don't like Caucasian men or are leery, afraid or unsure of how to relate (culturally, sexually or linguistically). Some Japanese men have some inferiority issues - -and oral communication in a foreign language is one of them.

  

My teacher was good at making me behave.

My teacher was good at making me behave. Not exactly my own teacher, but my first full-fledged gay sex was with a college professor.

I was studying in France (Junior Year Abroad) and joined the university choral club. It turned out that one of the older guys (the club was open to anybody on campus) took a shine to this 19-year-old American guy. So he kept winking and being friendly during and after rehearsals:  I was really new to noticing such attentions.

After several months, he eventually invited me over to his apartment a few blocks from the campus. It was the first time that I had actually been able to act both romantically and sexually with another guy in a mutually gratifying encounter.

He asked me to sit next to him on the couch and the sexual vibes were electrifying.. it wasn't but a few minutes later -- while we were looking through one of his photo albums that we just abandoned all pretense and started kissing passionately. Minutes later, he took me to his bedroom and then proceeded to instruct me in the realities and pleasures of gay sex. I got fucked in the butt for the first time by a guy who was about 40.

Unfortunately, he was not really interested in a relationship -- except jus sex from time to time. It was very disappointing for me and I learned my first 'lesson' about what can be the difficulties in maintaining (or establishing) a relationship especially because it was such a closeted time. His being a teacher was problematic for us both so he never wanted to see me on campus. Eventually, I gave up seeing him and before too long returned home.

Hanging out nude with other dudes - non-sexual camaraderie

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lexington3 U.S.A. : New York : New York	Original posting: lexington3 11 Jun 2009, 04:16 Hanging naked is fun. You don't have to be a nudist to enjoy. Anyone feel the same way? It's a pretty low stress way to meet up.
TKNAKED1 U.S.A. : California : Martinez	Follow up: TKNAKED1 11 Jun 2009, 08:09 Love just kiking back naked. Used to hit a beach / campground near Santa Cruz many times till is closed a couple years ago. This pic, I believe, is from one of our last trips. Man that was a GREAT trip. I'll be naked at home and if my buddy drops by he either sheds his clothes or it's no big deal for me to stay naked.
nyce2awl U.S.A. : New York : New York	Follow up: nyce2awl 11 Jun 2009, 08:09 I think hanging out naked is so damn great. So freeing and liberating (same thing?!). Wish I could do it all the time. My problem is that I'm turned on by being naked and almost always have a hard-on...is that REALLY a problem?
lexington3 U.S.A. : New York : New York	Follow up: lexington3 11 Jun 2009, 09:25 nyce2awl, Everybody thinks that and its natural and shouldn't be anything to worry about. As you get used to doing it (hanging naked non-solo) you'll become more comfortable and it will not be the problem or issue you think. If you meet guys into it randomly on-line the experience is apt to be more sexual so.. I resisted going to naked things for the same reasons. Guess what it really wasn't an issue. (notice I didn't say a "big deal") LOL,  Enjoy!
NewdInFl U.S.A. : Florida : Tampa	Follow up: NewdInFl 11 Jun 2009, 09:53 "Male bonding is best done nude." - Gay Naturist International Nudists in general are a very friendly community. Being naked with others breaks down so many barriers.
briefs6335 U.S.A. : New York : Rochester	Follow up: briefs6335 11 Jun 2009, 20:54 It has been a while since I've had a chance to hang out naked and I miss it. too bad we are so hung up on nudity in the US and there are not more nude beaches.
Bklynplay U.S.A. : New York : Brooklyn	Follow up: Bklynplay 12 Jun 2009, 08:41 never had the real opportunity...use to go to a gay campground that was clothing optional but was too shy to walk around naked
tomcanx U.S.A. : New York : New York	Follow up: tomcanx 12 Jun 2009, 08:54 I would love to try it out..but the truth of the matter is I am to conscious of my body...I think that is the problem a lot of people have with being generally nude in a non-sexual environment. But I would love to hang out and just be naked and not care.
nakedinma U.S.A. : Massachusetts : Malden	Follow up: nakedinma 12 Jun 2009, 09:58 I host a naked movie nite in the winter, and go out to naked swimming holes in the summer. Love to just hang out naked.
Dic U.S.A. : Virginia : Woodbridge	Follow up: Dic 12 Jun 2009, 11:11 I used to hang out with about 10 guys and just get some sun. Some would have on swim trunks and the rest of us would be buck ass naked.
RonnieG U.S.A. : Missouri : Kansas City	Follow up: RonnieG 13 Jun 2009, 14:06 Nude pool parties are cool and nude beaches. It is not always sexual, even if I get a little aroused from time to time.
flashguy U.K. : Gloucestershire : Cheltenham	Follow up: flashguy 14 Jun 2009, 05:51 Yep i just love being naked. As soon as i get home from work i'm naked for the rest of the evening.. On my days off work i'm naked all day. unless i have to go shopping. I do enjoy being naked .
hottrodd7 U.S.A. : New York : Rochester	Follow up: hottrodd7 15 Jun 2009, 18:28 Hanging out naked is the best! Even better with buds! The whole hard-on thing soon goes away as it just starts to be so natural to be naked. Pretty soon---you aren't even thinking about it. Be careful though---it's addictive! The more you're naked the more you WANT to be naked!!! LOL
dogguy	Follow up: dogguy§ 10 Aug 2009, 06:19 Love hanging out at the beach nude, nude holiday resorts are great. Like camping/hiking nude. Just walking in the door and dropping the clothes is a natural thing unless I "have" to put clothes on for company/guests....:)
eseone Australia : Western Australia : Perth	Follow up: eseone§ 19 Aug 2009, 14:36 Love being Naked and around other Guys it's Great. There seems to be a barrier between people that is dropped. Luv it I just don't get to do it enough.
Nakedmatt U.S.A. : Washington DC : Washington DC	Follow up: Nakedmatt 20 Aug 2009, 04:48 Love being naked as much as possible! Especially outside, and if other guys are involved even better!
hottrodd7 U.S.A. : New York : Rochester	Follow up: hottrodd7 20 Aug 2009, 17:18 I agree with Nakedmatt--being naked outdoors is the best--and with other naked guys is awesome. Doesn't have to be a sexual thing (can be if you want), but just a bonding thing. I'm going to Hillside campgrounds next weekend--I plan on being naked all weekend long! Can't wait!
oakley U.K. : Essex : Thurrock	Follow up: oakley 20 Aug 2009, 23:23 love hanging naked with guy or guys. NOTE from editor: This last respondant, Oakley, is one of the guys who told me about the Naked Disco event that happens at a London gay club the 3rd Friday of every month.