My CMNM Exhibitionist Experiences Part 1

Exhibitionism and Public Sex Outdoors
As an ardent would-be exhibitionist, I find that I'm really more like a avid nudist/naturist who would like to be seen by other males. Although true trenchcoat cock flashing is a rare activity, love to get naked where it's not quite expected and love getting others to be naked with me. I write about this on my blog or at dickflash dot com.

My most memorable 'flashing' experience was in a public park on Tokyo Bay (at Odaiba) in June a few summers ago. I was sitting nude (there were other people in various states of undress, but none completely naked) in a semi-secluded area (regular pedestrian parks goer couldn't easily see, but anyone who had mind too could get an eyeful. I was far enough away from the other people or from the Rainbow Bridge in the distance to not be obviously exposing myself naked. Still, I had a few guys come up and get a glimpse (one even chatted a minute). But the highlight of that afternoon was when a cute Japanese guy about 20 yo who seemed overly curious, arrived and noticed me. He kept getting closer and closer, pretending to be looking out the ocean scenery, but obviously throwing glances at the naked
foreigner. When I started pulling on my now erect cock, he took the bait and eventually came up and stood nearby. He was just too intrigued and wanted to see my cock and see me jack off, so he stood almost over me - in the end, he stood right over me, spreading my legs wider with his own, and giving me soft verbal commands to beat off until I ejaculated. He didn't get naked himself, but it was one of the hottest exhibitionist experiences I have had - to be

I was approached by a perfect stranger who turned me on and was himself turned on my public sexual behavior. It was one of my first CMNM) (clothed male-naked-male) experiences that involved sex (well - I reached ejaculation - although it wasn't mutual). That experience sort of ratcheted up the level for what I expected from flashing and exhibitionism from myself- but since then, I've not really had another similar opportunity.


 I had the same of level of exhibitionist experience. Having sex at a gay nude beach is pretty hot especially while other guys watch - which is definitely why I go to gay baths or public cruising spots (it's being seen nude that is so arousing), but it's almost expected there - meaning it's not that out of the ordinary.

Recently, taking a new friend to a dudedebeach - and getting him to go naked with me was a really fun time. But it was about sex, really. I could go on but will stop and continue enjoying other guy's stories.

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Naked Dares - Message from Evanopolous

 

Below you will find the message of a great casual dickflasher who explains how he goes about flashing his cock in public. It's more meaningful when guys who flash dick actually talk about how and why they do so. I often feel compelled to flash in public places - it's not a obsession, but I can understand what's he talking about - although I don't have the same actual experience.  (from Kelly, blogger) 

A big thanks for all the kind comments from the couple of guys who've replied in group as well as you who wrote privately. Sorry I'm not responding to each individually. But I did read and appreciate each one.
----The above photo and message from Evan was forwarded in a group email message ----
From: Evanopolous    -- evanopolous (at) gmail (dot) com --  on   [PublicNakedGuys] Naked Dares

I just realized I have a SECOND photo of me naked with a Safeway. Surprising since I'm not fond of Safeway and rarely shop in their stores (they're quite overpriced!) Anyhow, I'm attaching it below.

Here's responses to all:

- The police have stopped me twice. Once in Vancouver about 2005 when they told me to get dressed before they arrested me, though it was obvious they were just saying it because they thought it was their duty and not intending to actually do anything. I obliged but at the same time pointed out the technical reality of Canadian law:

a) I wasn't naked--I had a bandana tied around my ankle; and

b) a nudity conviction in Canada is like nailing Jell-O to the wall: how do you prove that any damage was caused or harm done or anyone/anything endangered? (a fundamental foundation in Canadian law?)

The best charge for nudity is "public disturbance" , but since nobody had complained . . .

The second time was in San Francisco about 2006, right on Castro Street, mid-afternoon. A lady at a the bus stop had a major bovine while I was posing in front of the Castro Theater and called the cops. I wasn't even aware of her fits until my photographer told me several minutes later. By the time they arrived I was dressed and down near Walgreens.

They just politely told me "without accusing you of having been naked" that I should ensure I keep my clothes on because she's adamant that she will demand a citizens arrest be made. I merely said "Thank-you", and nothing more. I was finished doing my thing and didn't bother getting into the reality that simple nudity is perfectly legal on public City land.

- Yes, finding a photographer is the biggest challenge to getting naked shots. It's shocking how many people love naked pics but when you ask them to take the shot they are "Oh golly gee, I couldn't do that!" as if you're asking them to get naked. I now collect names of guys willing to do naked photos and am starting to build my own private database ( www.NakedEvan. com/#photos ) so when I travel to various cities I can check to see if I have a contact there to work with.


- Yes, I've got video footage of me naked as well, though not near as much and most of it is indoors and more sexual (masturbation or dildos). Video is more difficult for a number of reasons: it's more work for a photographer so even more difficult to get one, it requires more than a quick undress-snap- dress so a lot of locations aren't realistically possible, and unfortunately at times when I'd be ready to do it I just don't have the video camera with me.

- More photos of me? They're already on a dozen different web sites and I share them semi-regularly in various egroups. However for the most consistent stream of them you're welcome to join my own egroup: http://groups. yahoo.com/ group/NakedEvan  In my group you won't find very much of anything. This is because I use the egroup pretty much just to inform members when there are updates in my blog (where all the text, pics, and videos do get posted.)

I use my blog at www.NakedEvan. com because I have total flexibility over all aspects of it including no limitations on archives or how much space is being used, and never a worry that it could get deleted. The egroup is just a convenient way of guys being able to keep informed to check my blog. Or for those into it, my blog has RSS feed and comes complete with buttons so with one click you can add it to your Google, Yahoo, or MSN home page.

- I'm currently in Palm Springs. Spend my winters here. So no, can't hook up with you on vacation in Vancouver. Sorry, otherwise I'd love to. I always enjoy meeting up with guys for coffee.

- Thanks, I decline ALL requests to join any kind of social group or networking site. I'm already too involved in the Internet! So with all respect, please don't even send me an invitation for one as it's just an extra piece of junk mail for me to delete.

- Yes, I've done naked photo shoots with other exhibitionists. I'm always open to discussing that

(privately of course--don' t think the whole group wants to be bored with that). And if you haven't done a naked walk with Rusty on a lovely San Francisco evening you're missing out on one of life's great pleasures.

Hugs,
- Evan
 

 

 

The compulsion to expose oneself comesa from being an extreme racial minority

For nearly two years (very infrequently - off and on), I have tried to get a younger man (about 23-27) who rides to work on his bicycle through the cemetery to notice my peekaboo flashing (see thru, hole-riddled jeans, and mesh clothes). He's not ever really taken the bait and generally turns his head or avert his eyes - if we're too close - so that he can't be 'accused' of looking. I am pretty positive he knows what I'm up to ... a few times a month I make a sudden appearance on his route - sometimes with my zipper down or sometimes,  during the warmer months, wearing a pair of mesh shorts with my shirt tucked in just for him to see my pale cock wiggle from side-to-side as I walk by him.  If he were so disgusted or fearful (of being stalked), he could easily find another path to his work (I think he's working at a small commercial airport not too far away) because I meet him usually (once a week or so) around 7:00am and he returns about home the same route in mid-afternoon. Wednesdays are his day off so he works on Saturdays as well. Things have gotten more daring on my part this month.   Of course, there are many more people of Asian origin in most European cities than you would find Non-Asians (caucasians) in major cities of the country where I live.  I am writing this post partly in response to  in a posting (original from May 10) by the user cygnus who wants to find a place to flash in Holland. Look how he has described himself:  "I am skinny asian boy" (a very cute one from the looks of his attached photo ), so  I am wondering if being a member of a racial minority may have an effect on wanting to be a flasher (or to expose ourselves). I would say deep down psychologically it does. We' re not talking about simply travelling to a country that has a very different ethnicity as your own. But actually living, working and becoming immersed in the language, culture and daily life for a long period of time - (few to many years) might prompt extreme minority members to crave acceptance beyond the 'normal' channels. I noticed some str8 flasher on the other discussion forum on this site who fit this profile.  I'll need a shrink to help me explain it or explore the ideas within myself - but others may have some insight to share. So does this strike a harmonic chord with anybody else who is a would-be flasher / exhibitionist and who is also in a racial minority in the country of residence where you live and work?  Recently I've gotten more bold.. like this morning. From the road, he would see  me something like this (photo attached). I realize it's very tame by comparison  (to other's extreme flashing - but HEY!.. we are NOT all made or built the same,  right?) I'm standing in a pathway between grave plots about 7 meters from  the main road that runs through the cemetery. It's a straight wide (private) road with no thru vehicle traffic - so I only have to be careful about pedestrians and bicyclists going east/west. Before taking up my position just off the road, I scout out down the road to see if he's approaching and then take up my position (like the photo).  I'm turned a bit to the left but I can him clearly when I look to my right. I've done this before but never pulled my pants all the way down until recently.  Earlier, I was taking a piss (or pretending too). So twice recently.. when I knew nobody else was approaching either direction .. I've pulled down my pants and starting jerking my cock (not hard in this 'staged' recreation of the scene). There should be no doubt that he can see me in this peripheral vision but he's TOO damned chicken or just not going to give me the pleasure knowing he's looking. He's smart - not a smart-alec and he's not looking for a confrontation but he's not looking to see 'dick' if he can help it either. I know it's pretty stupid (fruitless is a better word LOL) -maybe useless to try to keep flashing this guy (if you can call it that). But the challenge just seems to be increasing my feelings of urgency. This time after he went by without so much as a smile or frown/scowl or side glance... I had to go deeper off the main road and beat off til I came. Is this going to lead to me trying to go to greater lengths to get the guy to look? I think the attraction is that I sort of 'feel' like I know him -- ridiculous idea (I know) but at least we recognize each other. Sometimes he almost can't help it if I suddenly meet him coming around a corner but it's risky to be 'showing' more than just wearing see-thru mesh - because mothers with school children, old ladies and men heading to their office job are equally likely to suddenly appear around the same corners. I know he does look my way at times .. but it's only when I'm 20-50 meters away. There is a large plaza (paved area) along the main road, where we sometimes cross paths at a much great distance. It is at times like that when I have my zipper down and my cock partly exposed. I notice then that he 'seems' to take a brief look .. but if I'm too close.. he averts his eyes or even turns his head. What do you think? It's not much of a flashing experience - but it's the most 'real' flashing I've ever done (not counting nude beaches and CMNM with male strangers in hostels/campsites). He's got to know that I'm 'beating off' for him, but he's closed to the idea.See what I mean ... in a posting (original from May 10) cygnus wants to find a place to flash in Holland. Of course, there are many more people of Asian origin in most European cities than you would find Non-Asians (caucasians) in major cities of the country where I live. Look how he described himself "I am skinny asian boy" (a very cute one from the looks of his attached photo ), but does being a racial minority have an effect on us wanting to be a flasher (or to expose ourselves). I would say deep down psychologically it does. We' re not talking about simply travelling to a country that has a very different ethnicity as your own. But actually living, working and becoming immersed in the language, culture and daily life for a long period of time - (few to many years) might prompt extreme minority members to crave acceptance beyond the 'normal' channels. I noticed some str8 flasher on the other discussion forum on this site who fit this profile. I'll need a shrink to help me explain it or explore the ideas within myself - but others may have some insight to share.

So does this strike a harmonic chord with anybody else who is a would-be flasher / exhibitionist and who is also in a racial minority in the country of residence where you live and work?